We've moved. Finally. It all came down to (and I am summarizing big time here) just packing it up, throwing it in a box and putting it all in storage. It took us three full days of stress, pressure, and urgency to get it all done. I am not sure we had anyone who didn't cry at some time during this frustrating time. The frustration mainly was on the part of emotion competing with the need to just get it done.
We now sit at our river home (our 40 ft 5th wheel) with my husband going back and forth an hour and a half away. He is staying with family and working until he sells his business. The kids and I plan to have a great summer here fishing, swimming, and crabbing. My husband will spend his days off here with us and then go back during the week and spend it there working.
We are strong. It will work.